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From Healing to Forgiveness

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Do you feel the lack of caring and loving people in your life? Does an anchor of loneliness persist day after day?

Healing ourselves and healing our relationships are critical. Caring for ourselves is essential in attracting the care and love of others.

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Do the Thing You Cannot Do

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In thinking back, I thank God that I took the numerous difficult steps that were necessary, after Joe died, to build up my life.

They were the foundation that strengthened me. I had developed the discipline over those years to move into consistent writing and to build my coaching practice, enabling me to share the things that losing Joe taught me.

I have learned that doing the things I thought I could not do, were just the things that were ultimately the most rewarding.
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Chapter from “I’m a Widow, What Now?”

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Snow has been forecast for tonight and tomorrow. This will be our first of the season for 2011, at least in my part of Denver. We’re moving into another season, one of the reasons that many of us live here!

Within my writing career, I am moving into a new ’season’ as well.  I’ve just sent the proofs back to my printer.  All the editing and changes are done! The book will be published within the next few weeks.

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Awaken the Possibilities

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You have lost a loved one.  It’s a new and scary world for you.   After a while,  you will want to examine some new possibilities.  Pay attention to every new idea that comes to you…and, reach out for others!

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We Remember…

Have you noticed this in your life?  The dreaded list is getting longer…the list of those dearest to me… those who have nurtured, inspired and blessed my life, who also are, unfortunately …only a memory.

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Music Heals the Breaking Heart

In a special way, music will be an essential part of this next week in the lives of my family.

We customized parts of the Memorial Mass for my mother, choosing music, talented musicians, a unique singer as well as some of the prayers.

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The Giver and the Two Wolves

Greetings! I’m remembering last Christmas…

My front door bell is ringing on a Sunday morning! Who…? A neighbor stood there holding a large tray of Christmas cookies, candies and cake-all home-made by her! We had not seen one another in many months. The re-connection, giving and healing begins…

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I Hear You


Amidst the Pain and Grieving You Can Discover How to Move Forward, Small Step by Small Step—So You Can Look Ahead To a New Way of Living and Feeling

…and I’ll Show You How…

The death of a loved one is a part of life that no one seems to understand.  You face the grief.  You have to, because there are no realistic alternatives.

Your life goes on, day by day, and what you do with that life emotionally, physically and spiritually will determine how quickly you can start to embrace an uncertain future with optimism instead of despair.

This certainly isn’t easy, and it takes time.

If you have been left alone by death, separation or divorce, and wonder what the future holds, this website was created for you.

How to make your path smoother…

My name is Patricia Muscari, Certified Life Coach and Founder of Your Future Within, LLC. I lost my husband to cancer several years ago.

After two years of emptiness and apathy I was still stuck. I knew I had to make some changes, if only to distract myself from the overwhelming sadness. And my children also looked to me for leadership.

There was no other choice:  I had to get un-stuck!

So I began to move forward, small step by small step, and after a while I started to discover how to live again.  And in time, so can you.

When you do allow yourself to dip your toe in the healing water; a gradual sense of relief begins to come over you, followed closely by discovery and curiosity for the future, and finally a sense of achievement and, yes, even a reclaiming of the joy you once felt, but in a different way.

This is probably hard to imagine right now, but try for a moment to consider what this kind of successful transition might mean for you.  The embracing of a new life that brings new possibilities, new explorations and a new set of positive emotions.

It’s possible.  I’m living proof.

This transformation is like a climb toward a summit of hope.

And with my coaching to guide and support you, strengthen and motivate you, you’ll begin to take those next difficult but necessary steps, and learn how to release the unique energy stored within you, just waiting to shine again.
Yes, all the resources are within you.  And you will be amazed. Your Future is Within You!  Waiting can be painful…..when you are ready, call me and we’ll talk.

Contact me today to get started.

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Personal Transformation

Greetings!  Sometime during our stop-over within this short life, we are all destined to make the final journey–to ‘go Home’.

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Do It Anyway

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It is sometimes sooo hard to be thoughtful and kind,  especially when the atmosphere around us is stressful.  Our snowfall today has all roads very slippery and accidents much more frequent.

I stood in awe this afternoon, watching a young man diffuse an extremely volatile traffic situation.   With people around him completely out of control, he gently and quietly worked and maneuvered the emotional situation to a  calm and  agreeable conclusion.

Apparently, he had no vested interest in the outcome.  He was patience and forgiveness.   Inspiring!
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